One of the major contributions of the internet to the dating scene is internet dating. While the idea was frowned upon by most people in the past, now we see more and more people getting into it. Among the hundreds of internet dating sites, a particular site arouses the interest of most people. These are the sites which provide free internet dating services. These sites, however helpful, continue to have some negative feedback from people who had bad experiences out of internet dating. How did this happen and how do we protect future online daters from these?
The concept of internet dating services is rather simple. You register, make your profile, and then find other members by browsing through their profiles. If you are interested in a particular person, you send a message. The other person then responds. Or someone who might be interested in you would send a message that you'd respond to. Anything beyond that, such as meeting in person, exchanging of particulars, and others, would be your call.
Because these sites are free, practically anybody can be a member. And because of the large membership, it would be hard for the website host to monitor, more so regulate, the individual activities of their members. Rarely do they perform background checks or screenings of new members.
Now this is where the dangers usually lie. It is part of human nature to trust other people. The problem is people can be too trusting at times. For example, during the first meeting or date, the girl invites the guy to dinner at her place. The guy turns out to be an ex-convict or serial killer. Take note of internet dating rule number 1: for the first meeting, always meet in a public place. That way, you can easily ask for help just in case things you need it. Friends can also be there to serve as "lookouts." This is not to scare you, but there are some horror stories of date rape and even death as a result of online dating. That is why it is important to be careful at all times.
Another kind of internet fraud is to pretend to lose some money in any way imaginable, such as by robbery or hospitalization. He or she then asks for money from the other person. Never give money or credit card information to anyone, even if you think you trust the person enough.
To avoid these, here are some things that you can do. First, never post personal information in your profile. This should be reserved when you've developed a level of confidence and trust with the person. Also, take note of any changes in attitude or behavior of the person you are talking to. Erratic changes in behavior and mood swings are some symptoms of serious mental disorders.
Free internet dating services can be safe venues to meet and get to know people. But like everything else in the internet, do not take everything based on face value alone. Conduct some research about the website. See if there are any negative comments from past members. Take note of the safety precautions and keep the danger signs in mind always. Whether for free or not, internet dating would still be risky if we don't know how to avoid its perils.
Free dating services can be found almost everywhere. Because there are quite a number of them, it is important that we discuss each kind. In this way, we will know which ones would work for us and which ones won't.
So what are the kinds of free dating services available? One of these is the online free dating service. The mechanics is relatively simple. You go to the website, fill out a registration form, and you're set to go! Once you become a member, you are then allowed to create your profile. Remember to keep it truthful without revealing too much. You may also upload some pictures. Your profile then becomes part of a database that is accessible to all members of the website, just as you have access to their profiles too.
You may then be assigned a mailbox, where you can create emails and send them out to those whom you may be interested with. Here you may also receive emails from other members as well. You may choose to exchange emails and agree to meet in person.
These websites are practically safe because you don't need to disclose your credit card number, as there is nothing for you to pay. But it is important that you choose a secured web host. There are still some personal details that you need to disclose, which may be hacked.
Another kind of free dating service is through phone. The process is similar to online dating services, except that the mobile phone is used this time. For this kind of service, clients can send messages to each other without actually knowing each other's number. Mobile phone companies sometimes provide this service. However, it is more likely for you to pay as you send a message. In other words, the service is not absolutely free. Standard rates will still apply with respect to the text messages sent.
There is also the modern concept of speed dating. In this scheme, the same number of men and women are gathered in a place, giving them the same number of minutes or seconds to talk to each person of the opposite sex. After this, everyone shall fill up a form where they write their impressions on each person. If impressions between two people are similar, then a match is made. The couple then gets to talk and make plans to go on a real date or something. The good thing about speed dating is you are able to meet more people in just one night.
Of course, the old-fashioned source of free dating service is from a friend who'd set you up on a blind date with someone. While these may be tragic at times, blind dates are also another way to meet new people and develop relationships with someone. I've known of some couples who found each other through a blind date. My point is, don't dismiss the thought outright. Keep your options open.
Free dating services are an interesting alternative to traditional dating. While it can be a good start of something, it is important for you to take caution. Reserve the particulars when you feel that you can trust the other person. Otherwise, never disclose any details about yourself, your work, or where you reside. Lastly, if you want to build a lasting relationship, work on it.
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